Commitment. Why do people have so much difficulty making and keeping commitments? Seriously, is it just my peer group (20 somethings), or does this happen across the board? Here is an example.
Now that I stay at home, I need to go a little more out of my way to see my friends and get some 'me' time. No big deal. So, to ensure that I get this 'me' time on a regular basis I sent a message/email to approximately 50 friends on Facebook asking them if they would like to be part of a Bunco group that meets once a month to hang out and have fun. ONCE A MONTH PEOPLE. I even set it to a regular day, the second Wednesday of the month so that each month we could plan our schedules accordingly. I also made it very clear that if you were the type to flake on such plans not to join as we need a regular number each month to play.
I got about 12 people to respond, and at our first meeting we had 10 actually show up. The next month we had 8 show up. This month...5. Seriously? Luckily the 5 of us are pretty awesome and had a great time together, and decided we are going to transform it from a Bunco group to a pot luck dinner group. I'm all for that as I LOVE to cook and try new things.
It just really upsets me that people don't value the commitments they make. I know it's just a silly get together - but it still irks me. Like the hostess for this month had no idea how much food or drink to get because hardly anyone from the group RSVPd. She asked over and over who was coming, and only the same few responded. That's just rude if you ask me.
Phew, felt good to get that off my chest!
On a lighter note, I had a great time hanging out with best friend today. She came over and we had coffee and tea and chatted for hours. Hubby is in Atlantic City with some friends for the day, so we had a girls day (well, G was here so it wasn't only girls). My friend loves owls, so I made this card for her. (The photo is a bit dark, as I took this at night in my crafting hole)
Supplies:
will update later...I can barely keep my eyes open! (mostly PTI though)
Such a cute, cute card!!! I can't answer the "commitment" issue, because it happens to me all of the time.....Just enjoy those 5 that you had a ball with and let it be the others' loss! ;-)
ReplyDeleteCute! I agree about the commitment... Although I'm guilty, too. I always have the best intentions, but it seems as Mom, my plans get waylaid by everyone else's in the family. Work, school, sports.... As if I am always expected to be the flexible one...
ReplyDeleteYour sweet card is adorable, I am a sucker when it comes to owls, just love it and I am sure you friend did to.
ReplyDeleteI know about commitment, it really sucks when people say yes then renege on it. Glad to hear that venting it to us made you feel a little better, just stick to the ones that matter is my theory. Been there done that and you are the only one that gets hurt. Hugs!
Super cute! :) That happens to me a lot too! But you get what YOU put into it! So enjoy the 5 people you have and go with it! :) But it's good to rant sometimes too!
ReplyDeleteWhat a super cute card! I'm sure your friend loved it. And regarding people that won't keep up with their commitments... well, I try to put those aout of my life. Less anger, less stress :)
ReplyDeleteCute owls! I can sympathize with you about people not following through on commitments - been there, done that! lol!
ReplyDeleteSqueal! That is such a stinkin' cute card!!! I'm with you! Especially in this age of technology, its easier than ever to send a quick rsvp! Stuff happens and people have to bail out sometimes, but leaving someone hanging is just not cool!!
ReplyDeleteCommitment offenders are almost as bad as people who are chronically late. I understand something comes up from time to time but no need to be late every time. Plan ahead!
ReplyDeleteOh, your owl card is too cute! Love them sitting on the line/twine.
ReplyDeleteThe card is great... and yes, people are like that across the board. But, enjoy the ones who are committed. They are worth it!
ReplyDeleteI totally feel you! I'm the party/holiday/event coordinator in our family and I swear, it's like pulling teeth to get people to respond. And this is MY OWN FAMILY!!! I'm like, "Seriously, it's Christmas! And you've got something better to do than spend it with your family?" We have the same routine every year, so it's not like it's a huge surprise! If I didn't keep harassing them, none of us would ever see each other, and we live in the same city.
ReplyDeleteWhew! It felt good to say that in an arena where they can't see and get offended and use that as an excuse to make more excuses! :o)
Glad you got to spend a day with your friend! The card you made her is adorable. I love owls!
Super, super, super cute! Love the paper pieced owlies and I LOVE that cloud background Very nice card!
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